For me it is loneliness. It is nearly impossible to make friends nowadays. People are so distanced by phones, iPads, whatever the latest device. It's like a coat of armor. People carry them around like an impenetrable shield that protects them from real life. At least this is how I see it and how it feels trying to get close to someone. I've had the opportunity in the last few months to get somewhat close to a few people to only be disappointed once again. I think these devices are mostly to blame. They give us a false sense of security. I mean it's a damn machine.... for crying out loud.
I feel much like a person so alone in this world, that I must be the only one. Yet I know that this cannot be true. I know that if I'm going through this, there must be others. It's just how life works. I see other people with all these people, family, and friends in their lives -- and I'm so taken by it. I want to scream at them to not take it for granted -- because so many people do. Few folks truly comprehend what it is like to spend endless hours alone, wishing, waiting, desiring accompaniment. I only wish I knew what to do? I've even thought of going to bars -- if I thought that would help -- but I KNOW that isn't an answer for me. That would only make my life worse than it is... but it feels pretty bad right now. Oh I'm not depressed, I'm oppressed. For what reason, I have no clue. It just seems to get worse and worse. I pray and cry -- and nothing changes. I've befriended people and given my all -- only to find that when I need a friend, they don't know how to be one. This is a sad fact of this world.
I even understand this form of shallowness. I can accept it and move on -- but move on to what? Move on to where? Further depths of sorrow and depression? Feeling increasingly more and more hopeless? I hate even writing these thoughts much less having them. I am a very hopeful person. I dispensed hope for a living.... but yet -- here I am with little of nothing and almost no one in my life. The kicker is I don't know why? People tell me I'm an inspiration. People tell me that I'm the person that can help others change their lives -- but I cannot heal my own? I cannot make people want to be in my life! Are people so leery now that they won't even give someone a chance at friendship? I'd had plans with one person from work -- after work and then I just totally got blow off - and for some reason unbeknown to me, I didn't even deserve a call back? Are people that rude? I guess they are. People have no intentions upon letting anyone into their inner circle. This is how shut down the world has become because of technology. This is why someone can lie bleeding on the sidewalk and people step over them with no thought of helping. We're walking dead. I'm of a mind that technology is to blame. It's the one thing that's between us. I don't know too many real people that exist anymore. Oh there's plenty that act "as if"... but they're not real either. It makes me sick inside.
I wonder what this does to God. If I'm affected emotionally and impacted negatively by this -- I wonder how He feels? I talked to a guy yesterday that said he didn't believe in anything. How sad. No faith -- things just are. Wow. I'd been dead a long time ago. Seriously.
As I fight this depression and anxiety -- and I do it with just God and I - it's very difficult. I have one friend. Oh I have professionals. That isn't the same. They're paid to talk to me. It isn't as if they don't care, they do but you understand. They're compassion can only go so far. All of this is affecting my confidence, my self- esteem, my hope for living. How could it not? These are basic needs. I don't feel like I belong anywhere. This is a destitute feeling. I have very distant family - and one friend. I'm strong - but not that strong.